We all have been there in one way or another. That dreadful
moment when you wish all is a dream that you will wake up from, only for it to
dawn on you that this is reality. The only wish on your mind is for the earth
to open and swallow you up. Of course this never happens, the reality is; you
are here, the worst has happened and life must go on.
We have had those moments when we have faced betrayal from
the people we love the most in our lives. It could be our parents, our siblings,
our mentors, spouses, friends or even our employers.
It is unfortunate that the betrayal of people we trust the
most hurt us the worst. We would all love for this not to happen, but sometimes
it happens. What next? What do you do when the people you love the most, the
ones you trusted your life with, tear your life into insignificant pieces and
throw them back on your face? How in the world are you going to pick them up,
how are you going put those pieces together into a life that you once had? The truth
is, life is never going to be the same again. You have two choices; pick up
those pieces, glue them together with pity and walk around miserably with a
constant reminder of what you used to be OR let the pieces be, build a new life
and give it a new heart. For a heart to have been broken, it was not strong
enough. If you have to pick up those pieces, let it be for the sole purpose of
learning those weak areas, so that you can replace those weak materials in your
life with bold and stronger ones.
What I have learnt in life is that people avoid associations
with those who walk around with self pity; we all want to be associated with
people with shining hearts, people who ooze with confidence. We all want
glamour that is who we are; it is what the world is. I have been through the best
moments in my life; they have given me immense joy, they have also boosted my
confidence and self worth, however it is the worst moments that have given me
strength, they have led me to discover my inner self, they have taught me the
value of patience, keenness, trust, love and forgiveness. The best gifts you
can ever dream to have in life. It is through the worst moments of my life that
I have re-discovered my true-self, my potential and what I am capable of.
My dear friend and reader, do not be afraid of challenges,
never be afraid of people who break your heart or life. Proudly pick those pieces and make something new, stronger and fabulous out of it. Do not worry if
those pieces cannot be picked up, all you need is a magnifying glass to study them;
all you need to know is that the new heart and life you are going to build is
never going to be anything closer to the broken one. It is going to be
superior.
*****Beast words
of Advise******
After the storm
comes sunshine.
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